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Hard work does NOT equal results

empowerment Feb 10, 2022

I know you value hard work and respect others that give their all. It’s something you’ve taken pride in and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Here’s where it gets tricky.

Up until this point in your life, the next level of success and achievement has always come when you’ve found that next gear and given just a little more – push a lil harder in the race and you’ll PR, work a little harder on that next project and you’re up for promo.

There comes a time in every high-achieving woman’s life when she realizes that the life she wants simply isn’t possible by working harder.

This is when it’s essential to take a beat and reflect on what you truly want, not what you think you should want or should be doing. Get honest with yourself about why you’re hiding in your work (especially if it’s work that’s not actually aligned with your values) instead of focusing on the things that are truly meaningful – work that matters, alignment with your truth, quality time, living your desires and continuing to grow.

Hard work does not guarantee results.

For a lot of us this is a huge mind f*ck to untangle because up until a point in our lives hard work HAS gotten us what we wanted.

This is something that’s driven me up the wall in the coaching industry. There are people I know who have less training than I do who have created outrageous success.

They are doing incredible work, deeply helping people, making literally millions of dollars while throwing out all the rules. They show up messy, they don’t have everything perfectly put together. They don’t hustle and force their way, they prioritize pleasure while working.

OMGEEE my inner good girl rule-follower gets so upset by them. AND I know that’s a sign to look deeper. Because there’s something there for me in being forced to confront the fact that I could do everything perfectly and still not get the results I desire.

Hard work does not guarantee results.

I like to talk about this as the Queen Bee/CEO/Boss vs Worker Bee mindset. We’ve been trained to be good honest hard working worker bees. Putting in the hours to get our lil bit of nectar. But the Queen Bee is the boss. She isn’t out there doing the work to gather nectar and build the hive. She’s directing and influencing the work. She’s in charge.

Do you want to get to the end of your life resenting that you put in all the work but didn’t get back what you wanted?

I don’t want that for you.

If you want to get to the next-level in your life, maybe it’s time to evolve your inner worker bee. And see what it’s like to hold the energy of the Queen/CEO/Boss who knows her worth is not dependent on how much she works.

I’m so passionate about helping women navigate this transition that brings up all of our shit so that they can do the work they’re meant to do and live the lives they truly desire.

That’s why I’m thrilled to be offering 10 free no-obligation Unlocking Your Next-Level Life Coaching Calls. Where we can talk about all about what your next-level is and what it’s going to take to get there, hard work not included.

If you’ve been curious about what it would be like to work with me, this is the perfect opportunity. Hop on it!


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