We all have an image in our head of the “right” life, the successful life, the life that means we’ve made it. Depending on how we were raised and the values instilled in us that might look like having THE job, THE house, THE family or some variation of this.
Many sacrifice our souls, values, integrity, and autonomy to achieve this so-called “right” life. But there are many more insidious and harder to pinpoint ways in which we sacrifice ourselves for what is “right.”
This might look like
…Staying late to help out a coworker who never returns the favor
…Going along with our partner’s routines, food preferences, etc while denying our own
…Letting guilt and obligation keep you trapped in unhealthy family dynamics
…Dating people because of what they look like on paper instead of how they make you feel
…Denying your passion for baking or art or helping others because that’s not a sensible job
…Letting your boss, family, coworker treat you poorly because you don’t want to “rock the boat”
Starting to live the life that’s right for you doesn’t have to look like quitting your job and moving halfway around the world, it can start so much sooner than you think.
The life that’s right for you has much more to do with feeling than appearance.
When we identify what we want, claim it, communicate it and hold to it even when it doesn’t come immediately we build ourselves into the person who can actually live the life we dream of.
One who is confident, trusting, relaxed and self assured enough to create that life brick by internal brick so that one day we’ll wake up and pinch ourselves that it’s really truly here and we’re really truly happy.
On the outside it may or may not resemble that life of the “right” life but on the inside it will feel warm, comfortable, easeful and just right for us.
This is what I’ve been helping women do for the past 6 years – building the awareness and courage to create the life that’s right for them.
Just in the past couple weeks I’ve had clients celebrate:
The first time in my life that I’m not working on myself” all while experiencing their Type A personality soften and evolve into a trusting, self assured mother and leader 💃
Experiencing “when I speak, the room listens” after giving themselves permission to take up space in important meetings 🔥
Their last weeks of corporate work before fully committing to the soul-led self-expressive business they’ve been slowly and steadily building on the side 🎉
Admitting that they do really want a partner and family after denying that desire because dating is really hard ❤️
Feeling really strong and connected to their body after a period of illness and fertility things 🥰
If you want it, this gets to be yours too!
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It’s time to claim the life that’s right for you
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